My Mom lived for about seven years at Ho ...
My Mom lived for about seven years at Horizon Club, and died there a year ago today at 95. There are definitely good and bad points to the place, but if you are reading this you probably just want to know if you should put your loved one there or someplace else, and I think that you would make a pretty good decision if you did, and you could definitely do a lot worse. When she finally decided that she had to move into a facility, we visited a number of places, and I preferred the Forum, which was perhaps a little more expensive, but my Mom said that knew people at Horizon Club, that all those places were the same, and so she moved there. The first two or three years were pretty good for her, even though she was losing her sight, and she had several ‘boyfriends’. Somehow she had always convinced the staff that all she needed was independent living, and she got a pretty good deal in a small room overlooking the waterway for a yearly rate of only about $20K. Compared to something similar in New York, where I live, this would be nothing less than somewhere between one-third to one-fifth of what we could have found that is comparable here. Deerfield Beach is a little run down, but is a decent town, and close to some nicer places including Boca Raton. Old people like to complain. My Mom was not a happy camper her last three years as her health deteriorated with numerous problems that I won’t get into. Some people on the staff are quite good and caring, some are new and don’t know what’s going on. Some of the residents yell at the staff. The aides are mostly from the islands, some are not easy to understand when they speak, and they probably don’t make a lot of money, but that’s just the way the employment market is for that. My Mom’s biggest complaint was that they didn’t bring her what she asked from the waiters at dinner, and then, later, when she was confined to her room after she was unable to go down to the dining room, that they didn’t bring the right food up to her room that she had ordered from the menu. I have to admit that I was not the primary contact person, and that my sister lived in Florida. But when I went there, it was as nice as you could expect. The food was plentiful and pretty good, a little bland for my taste, but that’s likely due to dieticians for the elderly. Some of the residents smiled at me when I walked down the hall, happy to see a younger people in a place filled with the old. Some residents had more significant problems. My sister liked to complain about the costs.
The grounds are really quite nice. There are two courtyards with a koi pond in one. If you can get a room overlooking the waterway, there are beautiful birds back there. There’s a pool, where my Mom liked to be on her better days with her gentleman friends, and various games like shuffleboard. Unfortunately, not many people are able to take advantage of the outdoors, but there are various groups that the ladies go to, and an entertainment schedule for the auditorium, a shuttle schedule to shopping. Yes, it’s all a little sad, people get old, but what can you do. That's just our health care system.
When her heath worsened, Horizon Club insisted on moving my Mom to assisted living in the Atrium, which is similar to a hospital ward. It’s nice there, too, with a skylight and an open area in the middle of the ward. My Mom didn’t last long after that, maybe about five months. There was constant coming and going of aides caring for her. I had more interactions during that time with Garrett and Mary Beth. One thing that did surprise me was how lean the staff is run. Mary Beth is the director of Horizon Club, and I guess you could say that her main man is Garrett, but it was not as if these people sat around in their offices all day. Mary Beth was at a station in the Atrium, and Garrett always was around doing something or filling in for somebody. I’m sure it’s not an easy job for them.